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Sex Toys
Primary Vibrator: Doxy Wand
- Doxy Original
- In general, the plug-in model is preferred over cordless
- More power, deeper vibrations, no need to worry about charging
- Position it directly on her clit
- Pressure and intensity can be adjusted based on her sensitivity
- Some chicks like it super gentle on the lowest setting
- Other respond best when it’s on max power and pressed hard into her clit
- Can be used passively (set in place with leg pressure).
- Reliability is not great
- I’ve gone through 4 of them in the past 5 years (2 were replaced under warranty)
- Be careful when cleaning or getting it wet
- It will overheat and auto-shut off if the run it for ~15 minutes on max power (yes, some chicks want that much and more)
- Make sure to give it a break to cool off to prevent damage
Cheaper Primary Vibrator: Hitachi Magic Wand
- Hitachi Magic Wand Original
- Only two power levels (Doxy has eight)
- Less range in power (Lowest setting is higher than the Doxy’s lowest settings. Highest setting is lower than the Doxy)
- Many chicks only enjoy the lowest setting
Secondary Vibrator (Smaller): Domi 2
- LOVENSE Domi 2
- Portable, compact, battery powered.
- Much smaller vibrator head, so it can be used in positions where the Doxy head too large (see below for “combinations”).
- More of a high pitch vibration, not a low rumble, compared to bigger plug-in vibrators. Not the most ideal form of stimulation.
- Lowest setting is often too powerful, but high setting is very powerful.
- Had bluetooth feature I’ve never uses
Secondary Vibrator (Suction Clitoral Style)
- Satisfyer Pro 2: Suction and Clitoral Stimulation Vibrator
- Thumb-suction style; lower intensity.
- Many chicks are familiar with this style
- Requires specific positioning over her clitoris to work correctly. Easiest way to start, is to take her hand and have her guide you into position
- Sitting in lap position
- Bonus, from this position:
- Choke her
- Play with her tits
- Pull her hair
- Talk dirty right into her ear
- Choke her extra hard right as she orgasms
G-spot “Dildo”: njoy Wand
- njoy Pure Wand
- Cheaper clones of this can be found on Amazon and other sites
- Stainless steel, curved for G-spot stimulation
- As you thrust the dildo in and out of her pussy, the bulb end rubs across her G-spot at the top/roof of her pussy
- Start slow and gentle
- Always use plenty of lube
- Warn her that it’s cold at first, but most chicks like it
- Play with it inside her, while talking to her to get feedback on how she likes it
- Deeper vs shallower thrusts
- Fast vs slow strokes
- Rough vs firm thrusting
- You can also play with the angle, to press more into where her G-spot is
- After she gets used to it, you can go really rough
- Seriously, don’t underestimate how hard you can pound her pussy while you grip the toy
- This will frequently trigger squiring
- If she hasn’t squired before, she’ll describe it as “I feel like I need to pee”. Encourage her to let you keep going until she squirts.
- Most chicks prefer the smaller end
- A minority do like the big end and like it really rough (they will be sore the next day)
- It’s usually easiest to start with her positioned laying on her back
- But the toy works great with her on her hands and knees (you’ll be holding it “upside down”)
- Also works with her on her side or basically any position
- Can be combined with tying her up
- Some chicks prefer “inside”/G-spot stimulation vs clitoral stimulation
- You can usually tell these chicks because they are less enthusiastic about the vibrator and often instant about you fingering/them