Sex Toys

Primary Vibrator: Doxy Wand

  • Doxy Original
  • In general, the plug-in model is preferred over cordless
    • More power, deeper vibrations, no need to worry about charging
  • Position it directly on her clit
    • Pressure and intensity can be adjusted based on her sensitivity
      • Some chicks like it super gentle on the lowest setting
      • Other respond best when it’s on max power and pressed hard into her clit
  • Can be used passively (set in place with leg pressure).
  • Reliability is not great
    • I’ve gone through 4 of them in the past 5 years (2 were replaced under warranty)
    • Be careful when cleaning or getting it wet
    • It will overheat and auto-shut off if the run it for ~15 minutes on max power (yes, some chicks want that much and more)
      • Make sure to give it a break to cool off to prevent damage

Cheaper Primary Vibrator: Hitachi Magic Wand

  • Hitachi Magic Wand Original
  • Only two power levels (Doxy has eight)
  • Less range in power (Lowest setting is higher than the Doxy’s lowest settings. Highest setting is lower than the Doxy)
    • Many chicks only enjoy the lowest setting

Secondary Vibrator (Smaller): Domi 2

  • LOVENSE Domi 2
  • Portable, compact, battery powered.
  • Much smaller vibrator head, so it can be used in positions where the Doxy head too large (see below for “combinations”).
  • More of a high pitch vibration, not a low rumble, compared to bigger plug-in vibrators. Not the most ideal form of stimulation.
  • Lowest setting is often too powerful, but high setting is very powerful.
  • Had bluetooth feature I’ve never uses

Secondary Vibrator (Suction Clitoral Style)

  • Satisfyer Pro 2: Suction and Clitoral Stimulation Vibrator
  • Thumb-suction style; lower intensity.
  • Many chicks are familiar with this style
  • Requires specific positioning over her clitoris to work correctly. Easiest way to start, is to take her hand and have her guide you into position
  • Sitting in lap position
  • Bonus, from this position:
    • Choke her
    • Play with her tits
    • Pull her hair
    • Talk dirty right into her ear
    • Choke her extra hard right as she orgasms

G-spot “Dildo”: njoy Wand

  • njoy Pure Wand
    • Cheaper clones of this can be found on Amazon and other sites
  • Stainless steel, curved for G-spot stimulation
    • As you thrust the dildo in and out of her pussy, the bulb end rubs across her G-spot at the top/roof of her pussy
  • Start slow and gentle
    • Always use plenty of lube
    • Warn her that it’s cold at first, but most chicks like it
    • Play with it inside her, while talking to her to get feedback on how she likes it
      • Deeper vs shallower thrusts
      • Fast vs slow strokes
      • Rough vs firm thrusting
      • You can also play with the angle, to press more into where her G-spot is
  • After she gets used to it, you can go really rough
    • Seriously, don’t underestimate how hard you can pound her pussy while you grip the toy
    • This will frequently trigger squiring
      • If she hasn’t squired before, she’ll describe it as “I feel like I need to pee”. Encourage her to let you keep going until she squirts.
  • Most chicks prefer the smaller end
    • A minority do like the big end and like it really rough (they will be sore the next day)
  • It’s usually easiest to start with her positioned laying on her back
    • But the toy works great with her on her hands and knees (you’ll be holding it “upside down”)
    • Also works with her on her side or basically any position
    • Can be combined with tying her up
  • Some chicks prefer “inside”/G-spot stimulation vs clitoral stimulation
    • You can usually tell these chicks because they are less enthusiastic about the vibrator and often instant about you fingering/them