Pre-Sex Setup

LED mood lighting

• Indirect, soft, dimmable mood lighting is ideal
• Red is best for for sex
• Basic RGB LED lighting kit

• For portability and easy travel, a basic flashlight or lantern with red light works. I recommend these (rechargeable, magnetic attachment, 2+ hour run time):
  • Olight Sphere – USB-C Smart Night Light
  • Olight Perun 2 – Mini Headlamp Flashlight (With Red Light)

Sexy background music playlist

• Ideally, use a Bluetooth speaker connected to a second phone
  • Don’t have to worry about connecting/disconnecting if you leave the apartment
  • You don’t need to show her your phone or get distracted to change the music
• Leave the music running when you leave, then there’s nothing to mess with when you bring her over.
• Spotify Playlists:
  • Hot Pop 🔥
  • French Sexy 🇫🇷 😘
  • Sexy Lo-Fi
  • Angry Sex 😈
  • Erotic Lounge (No Vocals)

Bedroom Layout

• Spray bedsheets with cheap cologne or Axe Body Spray before she arrives
  • Gives the room a sexy smell, especially when she’s face down into the sheets
• Bed restraints
  • Attach straps (Velcro or rope) clipped into corners
• Have sex toys, paddles, vibrators, blindfolds, ropes, etc. easily accessible by the bed
• Other accessories
  • Squirt lube bottle for lube
  • Incense holder
  • Massage oil and bottle warmer