I usually start off intense. Kiss her and push her back against to door as soon as we walk into my apartment.
Picking up girls (even thicker girls) doesn’t require that much strength. I bend down slightly, grip her thighs, and pull her into me while standing up fully. The key is to get her weight over my hips, so my hands are only older her against me, not supporting her full weight.
I pick her up and press her against the door, hard. Petite chicks are used to being picked up and carried around, but the thicker chicks are usually very surprised and exited by it.
I carry her right into the bedroom. Kick the door closed us, pin her against it for a bit, before carrying her over to the bed and throwing her down on it.
Transition to Physical
If the vibe isn’t fully sexual as we get back to my place, I do some of the following up escalate things:
- Either Netflix/chat distraction or direct sexual escalation.
- Early physical dominance: hair pulling, neck kissing, light choking.
- Avoids permission-seeking; instead, takes assertive lead.
- Usually leads to couch makeout escalating within 10 minutes.
- Astrology/pagan decor used conversationally to build vibe.
- Wine, bottled water, chilled sparkling water available
Bedroom Transition
- Sometimes carries her, otherwise guides her via hair pull/choking.
- Pushes her against the wall for dominance; makes out again.
- Either backs her in face-first or picks her up to carry.
- Once in bed: spanking (starts with hand, not paddle), further stripping, and teasing.