Ethical Fuckboi

Author: Ethical Fuckboi

  • Aftercare & Clean-up

    • Hand towels preferred to tissues.
    • Baby wipes available.
    • Notes girls vary in refractory period: some need 20 minutes; others 30 seconds.
    • SSRIs impact ability to orgasm and may require more effort.
    • Baby wipes, hand towels, and condoms (numbing, extra lube, and thin variants) on hand.
    • Breath mints and gum available.

  • Other Thoughts

     Meta-Reflections & Strategy

    • Sex toy use began as a workaround for performance anxiety.
    • Girls often impressed by competence and sexual authority.
    • Not every girl returns, even after strong sexual connection—other factors affect that (e.g., boyfriend, emotional mismatch).
    • Combines technical sex skills with emotional calibration.
    • Constantly experimenting with new setups, positions, and tools.

    Coach Influence & Iteration

    • Original inspiration came from BDSM-focused dating coach.
    • Over time, evolved own style—less use of blindfolds, more intuitive guidance.
    • Regularly adapts based on experience and feedback.

    Final Takeaways

    • Vibrators (especially plug-in wands) are the most effective toy.
    • Setup, dominance, and anticipation play are as important as the act.
    • Girls generally respond very positively to a well-thought-out experience.
    • Structure allows him to stay calm, avoid performance anxiety, and ensure her satisfaction.

    SSRIs

    • Girls on SSRIs or birth control sometimes require higher intensity and longer time.